I question the Sex Positive Movement’s assumption that anything that occurs between consenting adults is a healthy sexual expression, seeking instead discernment, depth, and curiosity.


Read more about the relationship between grief and pleasure here.
Self-Pleasure Practice Outline


Access is not Liberation

A candid conversation with my friend, Keith Paolino, about the difference between freedom to and freedom from, the growth path, and more…


I mention a few handouts in this video. Use these links to access them: Tips for Giving and Receiving Feedback, Menu-ing/Eye Doctor, Bossy Massage


The following videos and audios were originally recorded for a program for men who are in relationship with women… but everything in them applies regardless of gender or orientation.