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A Virtual Group for Men

Thursdays, 6 - 8 pm Mountain
6 Sessions via Zoom
October 17 - November 21st

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Despite the narratives in the world today about how easy things are for men, the truth is you face tremendous pressure and expectation – especially when it comes to sex.

Sovereignty is the capacity to guide your own ship and
not be pushed around by the wind or waves.
Instead you read them and harness them
to get you where you want to be.

You’re supposed to be able to get hard whenever you want. Stay hard for as long as you want. “Perform.” Bring your partner incredible pleasure and satisfaction. Be sensitive, yet masculine, attuned, yet strong. And, of course, to come on command at the right moment.

Most of the support, be it online or in books, centers around control and mastery. If you talk with your doctor, you’ll be handed a bottle of little blue pills that might address any physiological challenges you’re experiencing – or at least override them – but won’t address the deeper drivers that might be at work in your heart or mind. 

Pills, control, and so-called self-mastery don’t get to the root of your sexuality. They only scratch the surface. They don’t open up more possibilities or lead you into new, fuller expressions of your masculinity.

As a man, your sexuality is one of your greatest gifts to have – and to give to others. Understanding its power and its promise underlies your true sovereignty.
 

Join a small group of men for an intimate and confidential exploration of your sexuality, and what it can make possible in your life.

 
 
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ABOUT THE COURSE 

In this 6-week virtual men’s group, we’ll help you move from … 

  • Unconscious desire towards awakened sexuality 

  • Stuck patterns towards space and freedom

  • Limitation and dissatisfaction towards curiosity and possibility

  • Insecurity and inadequacy towards trust and patience

  • Shame and isolation towards community and connection

This group is not about learning mastery or control. It is about:

Connection. To yourself. Your sex. Your erotic nature. A brotherhood of men. 

Freedom. From the stories, anxieties, and expectations you’ve inherited. And, freedom to explore, reclaim, and discover the erotic self that is unique to you.

Sovereignty. The capacity to be with it all and stay in your power.

Embodiment. Because fully inhabiting your body is the foundation of all of this. 

Over the course of 6 weeks, we’ll dive into:

Fantasy
Shame
Pressure and expectation
Anatomy and what to do with it
Your nervous system and what it has to do with sex and pleasure
Inadequacy
Self-Pleasure

YOU’LL GET:

6 live virtual sessions via Zoom
Thursdays 6 - 8 pm Mountain Time
October 17th - November 21st

FORMAT: 

We will teach, and save plenty of time for your questions, coaching, shares, reflection, and feedback.

RECORDINGS, OUTLINES, HOMEWORK

All on a course page with downloadable video recordings and audio recordings, guided practices, and downloadable homework and outlines – available for a full year.

You’ll also get a special bonus: 1.5 hours of recorded teachings on female anatomy of arousal and different ways to touch and explore her.


We know this is edgy. We know that it’s uncomfortable to share your experiences of sexuality and pleasure in a group. It’s vulnerable, risky, and you’ve probably never done it before. Diving into these things on your own is one thing, but with a group of men (with a woman leading)?

Consider this: there are many places that you can learn solo. But a big part of the problem with sex is that we’ve privatized it to the point of complete and utter isolation. In order to bring more consciousness to your sexuality, and to have more access to your erotic power and pleasure, you’re going to have to bring it out into the light. Learning together with other men, rather than talking to a therapist or other practitioner, gives you more experiences to draw on. In seeing and feeling the diversity of experiences, you get permission for whatever is true for you.

 
 
 
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Alyssa Morin is a Somatic Sex Educator, and Relationship and Intimacy Guide, weaving mindfulness, embodiment, soulcraft, and practical information into her work with individuals, couples, and groups. She especially loves breaking down the complexity of pleasure, sex, embodiment, and relationship into understandable, actionable parts and pieces that can be worked with and made sense of. As she looks around the world, she sees increasing support in sexuality for women and other genders, but very little for men. It’s part of her mission to change that. And now is the time. You can read more here.

FAQs

WHAT IF I CAN’T MAKE THE LIVE CALLS, OR HAVE TO MISS ONE?

This is a live group, not simply a class, meaning that your participation on the calls is important! If you have to miss one or two, or if something comes up, no problem! Life happens, and you'll be able to catch the recording. But if you won’t be able to make most or any of them, this probably isn’t a good fit for you.

ARE THE CALLS CONFIDENTIAL?

Yes! In our first call, we will make agreements around privacy and confidentiality so that everyone feels safe and contained. 

HOW DO I KNOW IF SEXUALLY SOVEREIGN IS RIGHT FOR ME?

If reading everything above is eliciting a response in your body – warmth, sweat, rush, tingle, buzz – tune in, and listen. You might get an answer. You could be feeling fear, excitement, a lean in, a repulsion. Any and all of those are possible signs that you are ready. If you aren’t sure, send me an email (alyssa@thiseroticlife.org) and we can set up a time to talk. We’ll explore where you are at and what you are wanting to see if Sexually Sovereign is a good fit at this time in your life.

WHAT’S YOUR REFUND POLICY?

We offer a 75% refund within one week prior to the course start date, no questions asked. After that, no refunds will be granted.

I HAVE QUESTIONS. HOW DO I ASK THEM?

Email alyssa@thiseroticlife.org, and we’ll go from there.

 
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